VOTE : Single or Married ...Who Has The Most Fun??????

Who has the most fun? Single or married people?

What's inappropriate to you:

So I'm asking this question with the utmost sincerity and seriousness. In this new age of social media, facebook, twitter, ect. Where do you draw the line as it relates to allowing your significant other to communicate with people of the opposite sex. Conventional wisdom says that you are supposed to unfriend all ex-girlfriends from you fb page, but some people do not think like that. Does that include someone you just had sex with but never dated? How about someone who you kind of liked but never got around to? What about the casual friend that you were just classmates with. Is it okay to respond to their post, accept or invite them to friend you, to a comment on a photo or shout out that they may have left on your page? WTF is a poke anyway... We live in a different day and age, these questions may seem silly or foolish. But I think it's a real conversation that a serious couple should have. Especially if you are active on social networks. I really would like to hear you guys thoughts on this subject. In my opinion we are becoming a nation of overly sensitive insecure people. I understand that men and women have different ways of thinking and looking at things. I agree that some things are off limits. But where is the line, what's saying or doing too much?

Bring Martin Back....

There are no good black shows anymore. No shows that show black couples really loving each other. Martin never cheated on Gina..."you go boy". BET's The Game is ok but its more of the same. The portal of the unfaithful black man who cant keep it in his pants,  who cant make a decision or be a good husband boyfriend or whatever. Give me a show that shows the black man being a good provider, lover and listener. Does that not make for good TV these days?  Oh well, at least we have reruns...

Thanks to my husband for being that man for me  ........

Our One Year Wedding Aniversary......I Love You

So our one wedding anniversary is coming up. As I sit here and reflect on how wonderful the year has been, I also sit here and think about how we can make our second year of marriage even better. This was a year of learning and growing for the both of us. So I was wondering, are there any couples who can give us advice on how they learn to move pass issues that may arise? Will and Jada give us a call :) . 

Long or Short Hair....What do you Prefer?????

Feeling The Hair GURL.......

I am feelings Kelly Rowland's hair in this picture. GO HEAD KELLY.......

Congrats to Mariah Carey & Nick Cannon......Bring on the Babies....

How many people thought Mariah Carey and Nick Canon would make it to see 4 years of marriage? I am happy they are doing well and congrats to them on the new babies. Some people are speculating that they used fertility treatments to conceive. My husband and I are trying to have a baby within the next year. What is the best way to do this without any treatments?

April 23, 2011 - "What is happiness to you David".......

"What is happiness to you David"..are the words Cameron Diaz said to Tom Cruise in the 2001 movie Vanilla Sky. When I watched the movie 10 yrs ago I thought to myself what a stupid questions..I thought that is the easiest question in the world to answer and I could answer it easily back then. Now at the age of 30 soon to be 31..the question is not so farfetched What is happiest...u go most of your young life chasing what you believe to be happiest, but when does the chase end..when are you ever content for more than a day? Does the ability to be happy fade with age? In my quest for knowledge, I pose the question to you, what is happiest to you readers....

April 23, 2011 - The way it is...

So my wife and I are about to celebrate our one year wedding anniversary in about a month. It got me to thinking about the past year and everything that we've been through. It seems like everything was against us from the beginning, but standing here now I feel like everything has went according to some plan, just don't know whos's plan that was. I didn't see it coming at all but I'm glad we are together. We have our favorite shows on tv, she likes the housewives of anywhere and baby shows. I more of a sports and law and order type of guy myself. One thing that we do agree on is that the way marriage is shown on Tv, movies, and often in your own upbringing is not exactly what u will experience own your own life. So we are using this blog as a way to share our experiences with other people and reflect on our own. This is going to be a true no holds barred account of the things that go on day to day between my wife and I. We do not have any children yet, but we have begun to work on that. This gives us a chance to spend more time getting to know each other, travel, and getting used to being a married couple. (you may not realize or understand that you have to ge used to being married and it takes time). This past year has been great to me, but I know that I have a lot more growing to do and i have to do more to understanding the needs of my wife better. As a man this is a ever changing set of feelings and emotions that you have to embark on when u enter into a marriage. It's like takin a trip but not knowing what the weather is going to be. So you prepare for what u think it will be, not knowing until you get there what exactly it will be. But you make the best of it regardless, if its hot and sunny than you can spend that time basking in the sun by the pool. If it's snowing then we bundle up, grab the skis and hit the slopes or make snow angles in the yard. Whatever it is, it doesn't matter if that's where you want to be. In a way I equate that how to deal with your woman and the unknown emotions that you may encounter. Through this we will take a long hard look at our past year and reflect as we come into our anniversary and beyond.